In honor of Valentine's Day:
"To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." Karen Sunde
"A life without love is like a year without summer." Swedish proverbs
"Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." Robert Heinlein
"Love is a promise, love is a souvenir,once given never forgotten, never let it disappear." John Lennon
"Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence." Vincent Van Gogh
" How can a women be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being." Oscar Wilde
"Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning." Unknown
"You know your in love when you see the world in her eyes, and her eyes everywhere in the world." David Levesque
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Stranger Danger!
Here is Tucson we had freeze like everyone else in the nation. It was HOT news and throughout the day it interrupted our regular scheduled programs. It was a little too much for me and a little annoying . Toward the end of the day I finally got some time to workout and have some alone time.
While I was finishing up a lady was talking about the "Great Freeze" and the significance of school being cancelled. I gave my two cents on the absurdity of everyones hype on the whole thing in the nicest politest way(some of you may argue, but truly I was on good behavior). She however tried to change my mind on how important this historical event was. Frankly, I didn't want to argue I just wanted to finish my workout in peace. But she kept going..... Hmm ,how am I going to get out of this one. Finally the house decorating show is back on from the TV at the gym. So I started just watching it intently and close our chat by mumbling something .
But why is that I'm still annoyed even after I leave. I stewed over it for a bit. When I usually have overly zealous conversation with a total stranger it doesn't bother me. I shake them off if there is anything to shake. If I do think about it, I'm not bothered. Why am I so agitated by this lady? I find myself venting to others about it. So I thought about it...
Our views were different. I was okay with it and she wasn't. She kept trying to help me realize how important it was. She was old enough to be my mom and talked to me as a child. Subconsciously that rubbed me the wrong way. But still ,why did a stranger get beneath my skin?
I realize that I liked to be heard. I want to be acknowledged. You don't have to agree with me just see where I'm coming from. Also I don't like it when someone is trying to change my opinion, especially when it's a feeling. I like my quiet time, it was interrupted. I usually enjoy interesting stranger exchanges just not the dangerous ones!
Mom would be proud that I learned more about myself from my Stranger Danger! ;)
While I was finishing up a lady was talking about the "Great Freeze" and the significance of school being cancelled. I gave my two cents on the absurdity of everyones hype on the whole thing in the nicest politest way(some of you may argue, but truly I was on good behavior). She however tried to change my mind on how important this historical event was. Frankly, I didn't want to argue I just wanted to finish my workout in peace. But she kept going..... Hmm ,how am I going to get out of this one. Finally the house decorating show is back on from the TV at the gym. So I started just watching it intently and close our chat by mumbling something .
But why is that I'm still annoyed even after I leave. I stewed over it for a bit. When I usually have overly zealous conversation with a total stranger it doesn't bother me. I shake them off if there is anything to shake. If I do think about it, I'm not bothered. Why am I so agitated by this lady? I find myself venting to others about it. So I thought about it...
Our views were different. I was okay with it and she wasn't. She kept trying to help me realize how important it was. She was old enough to be my mom and talked to me as a child. Subconsciously that rubbed me the wrong way. But still ,why did a stranger get beneath my skin?
I realize that I liked to be heard. I want to be acknowledged. You don't have to agree with me just see where I'm coming from. Also I don't like it when someone is trying to change my opinion, especially when it's a feeling. I like my quiet time, it was interrupted. I usually enjoy interesting stranger exchanges just not the dangerous ones!
Mom would be proud that I learned more about myself from my Stranger Danger! ;)
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